Humility of Heart
After submission to Christ, the second component of my leadership philosophy is humility of heart. This component is one that I strive for, yet never fully apprehend. Duane Elmer discusses humility in Cross-Cultural Servanthood: “A proper perspective of the holy God we serve brings a proper perspective of self—defined by lowliness of mind, gentleness of spirit and meekness of attitude. These stand in contrast to a haughty, self important spirit” (Elmer 2006, 29). He goes on to say:
Humility unites us while pride divides us. The pride of Lucifer broke the unity of heaven and the harmony between God and his creation. Pride continues to break unity between us and God, and between believers. We can’t follow Christ as humble servants and participate in quarrelsome relationships. The humble servant strives to reconcile people in God-glorifying unity (31).
Elmer rightly suggests that prideful ambition destroys Christian unity. Unity is the seed of greatness in the Church body. In the upper room on the day of Pentecost, the Spirit of the Lord came upon the Church as they were in unity together. In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus indicated that there were great blessings for those who sought peace and unity.
Marshall Goldsmith suggests that there are twenty habits that prevent one from realizing his or her full potential. The need to win it all, the need to show the world how smart we are, not listening to others, and failing to express gratitude are a few habits on his list (Goldsmith 2007, 40-41). Each of the habits Goldsmith shares has, at its core, pride. Pride can be defined as an “inordinate love of one’s own excellence” (Livingstone 2006). Goldsmith goes on to say that the higher one climbs the corporate ladder, the more challenges become behavioral rather than logistical. He shares the example of Jack Welsh who became the CEO at General Electric. Welsh had a Ph.D. in chemical engineering, but the board of directors was hesitant to appoint him as CEO because of “his brashness, his blunt language, [and] his unwillingness to suffer fools. The issues holding him back were strictly behavioral” (43).
In ministry, Christian leaders have to quickly face behavioral challenges. Leadership that does not recognize the influence and negative effects of pride becomes self-serving. The scriptures speak plainly with regards to maintaining a humble spirit before the Lord. The Preacher proclaims, “The fear of the Lord is to hate evil; pride and arrogance and the evil way and the perverted mouth, I hate” (Pr. 8:13). He later says, “When pride comes, then comes dishonor, but with the humble is wisdom” (Pr. 11:2), and also, “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before stumbling (Pr. 16:18). The Preacher of Proverbs articulates pride as an impediment to spiritual growth and godly leadership.
The secular marketplace has also found prideful ambition an impediment to organizational change. In Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap…and Others Don’t, Jim Collins shares several examples of successful companies that were propelled to the top by CEO’s that were larger than life only to have a significant fall once these men left their positions. His research suggests that “superstars” at the helm of businesses negatively impact the organization. Conversely, Collins shares several illustrations of humble individuals leading companies from the brink of extinction to marketplace excellence. What Collins terms a “level 5 leader” is one who “channels their ego needs away from themselves and into the larger goal of building a great company. It’s not that Level 5 leaders have no ego or self-interest. Indeed, they are incredibly ambitious—but their ambition is first and foremost for the institution, not themselves” (Collins 2001, 21). Too often, humility and self-abasement are confused. As Collins shares, Level 5 leaders, while humble in their approach, are aggressive to reach goals for things larger than themselves.
Kouzes and Posner speak of the necessity of working toward purposes that are beyond one’s self. They suggest that one should seek to release the “human potential in others, [balance] the needs of the individual and the community, [defend] the fundamental values of the community, and [instill] in individuals a sense of initiative and responsibility.” They further state:
Attending to these goals will always direct your eyes to higher purposes. As you work to become all you can be, you can start to let go of your petty self-interests. As you give back some of what you’ve been given, you can reconstruct your community. As you serve the values of freedom, justice, equality, caring, and dignity, you can constantly renew the foundations of democracy. As each of us takes individual responsibility for creating the world of our dreams, we can all participate in leading (393).
Clearly, the notion of humble service is a virtuous attribute in the professional community. While virtuous, it is essential in Christian ministry.
Leadership that reflects the humility of Christ is not void of conflict. The temporary instability experienced by diverse ideas is often helpful as long as it is resolved in the spirit of Christian unity. Kenneth Gangel addresses this concept in Feeding and Leading. “Leadership style affects every aspect of administrative behavior and certainly looms large in the area of human relations. Conflict often starts here because autocracy can produce resentment…” (Gangel 1989, 207). Ted Engstrom and Edward Dayton concur in an article written for the Christian Leadership Letter titled “The Wrongness of Being Right.”
Being right can be a losing proposition. If you are right all the time, you will intimidate people, and make it harder for them to remember the facts or attempt to share them with you. “No sense telling old So-and-So. He has his mind made up before you begin.” People don’t really believe old So-and-So is right all the time. They just believe that is what he thinks about himself. People in this situation easily become isolated (Engstrom and Dayton 1980).
“The goal is not absence of conflict; disequilibrium in the organization often leads to creative results. How we resolve the conflict demonstrates whether we are advancing the cause of Christ or our own personal careers and goals” (Gangel 1989, 207).
John the Beloved shares the stark contrast between goals that are egocentric and goals that seek good beyond oneself. “For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is of the world” (I Jn 2:16). The negative effects of pride are contrasted with humility gained through pleasing the Father. Leadership that is focused on pleasing the Father yields internal character. This internal character is generated through a humble spirit that seeks the well-being of others. Those enslaved by the “pride of life” find little use for an omniscient God. Conversely, those of a humble spirit seek answers beyond themselves. They are eager to seek God through prayer, ask questions of peers and subordinates, and implement solutions where others receive credit. They become almost eclectic in their approach to problem-solving: they seek the best solution, no matter who is the originator of the idea.